Frostings and fillings can make or break a dessert—and when it comes to treats like Whoopie pies, they’re the heart of it. Whether you’re sandwiching soft chocolate cakes or spreading something sweet between layers of a rustic sheet cake, a good filling ties it all together. This recipe uses simple, everyday ingredients—no shortening, no artificial flavorings—just real butter, cream, sugar, and a touch of vanilla. It’s smooth, sweet, and sturdy enough to hold its shape, but soft enough to melt into every bite. Perfect for Whoopie pies, cookies, cakes, or anything else that needs a little extra love in the middle.
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No Powdered Sugar Frosting
Method
- Mix milk and flour into a heavy bottom pot.
- Bring to a boil until thickened, whisking all the while. It will be lumpy.
- Cool.
- Cream together butter, sugar, vanilla, salt. To your creamed mixture add the cooled milk/flour mixture and whip until nice and fluffy.
- Remember, frostings and fillings made with butter are not shelf stable like the frostings made with shortening and should be stored in the refrigerator.


